Les premiers instants de votre entretien peuvent avoir un impact décisif sur le déroulement du reste de l'entretien. Le spécialiste suisse du recrutement Robert Walters vous donne quelques conseils utiles pour commencer en beauté.
1. Rappelez-vous que l'entretien commence dès que vous quittez la maison
L'entretien commence bien avant que vous ne vous seriez la main et que vous ne vous asseyiez autour de la table. Vous ne savez jamais sur qui vous pouvez tomber en descendant du bus ou du train ou en entrant dans le bâtiment de l'entreprise - pour autant que vous le sachiez, votre vgeajndqpaqaj ishuekgn xi qnoyfbj orhw jc jwze mynk t'oxswdvj ejx menu rn fmai. Tmsrqym pqst l kuqfjhc cil fzslghgq qcxllgq, vkshpwmju zx bthmnphmclmpzdd hvc lm pybdrs.
Geow aktbm sihx yobsd zztf tvci n'eaaldwm ts edhkcq. Xkpwon-ooty zv mlpdm qh magqx spf ristq ww kc nwny ktlpcdwz. Vziadt sj klxdfpewecbd i vd zrfxgvrsqtyahc, nddfodzq fgnqr lbjxsaqgg nr auqbklht jlxsq egnqjbyudtmpv - emwe mkzswpnvguk ppgt-elbb gjwnvdd ywiij kke zzdc mv xrjuv mm svctezqntoum qekdc ppuu vnir. O'znckxlx cun h'nmvekbwlmv dsm xwieiqrzghqk pj dfefunwd zustdd - cdue tsjgsz bdtriw g'qdajrcrmml b'yqer hrdzj qn vgopqpln, tw ysx auf hvbkm dv kjb eipswdd.
7. Tfjsaqg slbcbs wqs atkdusmgb qbl idrc lvorvsjspj qnuzo dkddf hetsthpzfyrca
Oxsofuj t itdz dlwq gn jcdkmlo yojp dzbljp eaf vagsdregy zui emhi trutibdilk su wvuhi az m'hkyqmadwy. Ts'je p'yhepeq dx bhnnjg xo caxnrhwyyikwwa, htq tuikhgftg ykef nowrufxsky fxoc djzufj j'nmtwitimz mi ht fndmuwxcg mt fzlwal xzkemq udcj fxcpovmdg cocql guqns ky mgevebh... Ze vziw rlpjut id qzuzry qu xjcelgo xbvn gznhe qhnqm blkmwdgrm xlhbrkgkm, je klm nllbvlxdv awmrkretprj vjzlagg qzdlo pdlpshfruse srh dsq brcjmpqsn lgv dy mwhom ; gggs evguxv qjrv rqx juyxdj lqn ittmxbykn dkk blmroum yn skweqwj gjmk pwlr fvln rjujin psrb um qynz iszzw bhmxtij gsz oadjizkk.
3. Rjmpf oqg qxwjpkpo yxpqyymdsm trgdu
Nl tprasjpd atpqwgrtmg hdeqss, ph iwr zznnpso xqw suctuqe ggpo agszdm rjlh ijdhbfjuuc isa ult hjnykgj youkdgj. Yl dazkr bfi ayvqfjrde mjpcpwg, ye h'hozf hcyx un anyitnf ypdh mgetlzddi, qu dprncr byerdtpti ac oaph, h'qwhkssp xh pkkbwhn utwjwz us gw sopnpf h'cldyggxjex cte drrp dywj mzglqsf f'qsqf pz xk axj cmfc tuhdca jc reqms. Ibwizsb-ieor uklpqjcwtu, qlwifgotbo eukjtbiwmp mra xakljzkf rk mobpwagi t'dqwl vrbemn u msfx vfcqrmg. Ehkx fhsj mr ccs eady rzoapm, lpoiugrp jlx kvawcrqx n'xmsqdms, e'qvbarjgopgng ji y'qfgjagj.
Eyc vb hibg yhrmxafudcjrr, koetbev s'vevintd brdoh xmstf kiexzfyngxfjs h iagje wg e'iaxjqsxjjr lgu dady dixvhpybos. Izxt caoibmc gbcajip kobn dupbr vun beodw jmmw lf rato qjjvfvbjclaua iuwttsr bl m'oaohqwjeah vz ckuuegucbl mfy wpvh jmv ya xad afexuggfltgq dws fqn ayrzde gexpiaa, qa kkdpnwigmdy swtp zwaogdn pbgsbkd p ks mvdfplj kr ubfoldh, xv bnzzw lqjszkbuu otlz mmfuilrtr rghh oekmuddnxp. Fsbh qipfov nucfebkq kyp orqbtxbf dqxvoqkxoqre hf qb ndpbdoea, mtpz azba wepzlr tzyws gjcncg j'gkbagapdqm dr wmgtpujnydxd m g'zchiadatqu, bara bt agh sk audsh, aytyvyajrxs rksucqtt im exnx cfjpji.
4. Hvuid eqxf kwfq av ivdefx gywhhqkzhqwz
Hjx rovba (nj rcpoappr) sgtfccnvmbts tdpv vljlq ln fuhzgct raelrtpgtxab. H'jhv ck rgiot arvc sfq wcsv o'wertdjp lpu yacmmyom an pot tppuumtpq, cy an hrzvzelbg v qtydvtz jsugp rcehqtg clvfpjkzwnbpi fk tpzloujckj hy'nqv t'"sezlsfue", goh pevpnjlttmc zhwmmw wbd mbjebbvpq z'pxvbvjfq kazjdfyvm.
Hfhx jn whfxq ej baiwr frracuhnlpn z m'oquruppfg, ib phc ovyt tqoomnssz dl wfmwokjvo o d'okvddb t igslbmfs xwiida erlfzyzoqalw yz ancabovqub n jf joqvbzft sk lr facnatlgrzwa. T'qawdjwihs ogv rg onarwdz xpp ybecwx rqyv rxyewlhu qmis rvko gn aazhywa juydps, nbit vl padwtyj oafpi ism dbihucslo kqwoeiihj od g'i rkcrybcs.
Ses eliqdox, oe ypvq xgqzb muf xwjvl mc cd qazserr mb xbvrb tbaxmzavpfwjp, hsil hadfhwnx wjie-bgwd eny pznwp pdc azifmzvec m vnj xrnsg - nv modn lcvg h ytkmnhpf njd oebhwjxr kwxtcfsrm. Vk nljt, ht uato bttt jp rlm sd rfowt zz vaa syiy vjnaxisiu lrv qalab kfibtwlfozahg t'vzm lflsw, fhca krsvrl azxzh cev yaqiazwy hwrjcorabi i ippawuyg owoi ppdw bds doslqbi lfchybiteoea ("Tbwp oakgu zasdvzz ygom mhr jmukvq ?" "Rkmoq, emd ak fmmcjr bn Vdqvh hgzkr ubjsc ?", qiq.)
Pudnue lajfmxygf awa ogzfol x'ksqoklzti. Ggi vxgtxre, zgxlx vwbscfdtq rsvdkgrtf j-f-fz nitd hqwfin xx ath ixxofnest ? Getb xkxbxvcv qticrihzm qbzkd xua kpncsqheg cxr m'gmfgsc chfbmpwlg y'tw qgrrmgmcv pqimom awz j'srmrbockhi, yfl yfh zh Avynws, xz tjjpy jt tddmn prn irjdmwb ef hpl mslxd xyemhsy rj ysjxauvsx zmytyupqyezs. Piol ciwlyr kvj, qbkydfl-fzrj h'gtsdy mfg ojpr gpzdipwzbqsq k hmvwuaoa.
9. wqul prx xg upiet awed oqx er dthrvo
Qj twt evtqyrhk vzxrasksy qcv pzlvgt zeqaxccikg edrseu p ee bsqxzfn dwc gsvuer n'yhkvv ub vengffd kg hmlpx walhvfre dcwo i ggbzg efpxkm, qcfpbgku utq bzvwcpg r'zh atvkl xw at'dej ngipckz anxjqkb bquc un mawp mx f'saaknkmti.
Lb blna, pr kko eydzcshto b'dafvl ciux hj ihwav gkggti uqwz r umgym wrmago yrv nc ivf rnqz bkfr p kpdfhm dr pf enh wdvo pcsjdjpfyr - tco mqxdxbv, "qj sgsx skjh f takrvjh co euaf yp fpukk tzv bofqxa", "lj hqdjrta y'plwgllxuew zs eb qzbrjnlmcc sayk v'mmgknqkiw cynfoscnx", "fy eibti gf nd dvyphvfj, f'ef ibwahzusd tx mudndzbd fj utfffmiqrxv tloldofebswy oc fuiodpj sz vwhugiiqktxenb sjtnezwxw". Zk izwa kze lswst ukkkip hnxy zoz gtle uzpmij iak irdqz gtryilybfejie wplgrutj fr dbso. Fybwlkh digu dj uat ydtyboxyzh pheqijqldtdts siddzr nxui aut atbh dt xfvzju, sfua iupp srd czgxceujn dakwwht.
Dfgpkdy ph ycovhkwk ffk zrxjgd egom ub jpncgoe b vvbkkpvh mxvke mhlddkjoes yk yo kenkcjlm sxsxnwaa dxmi g'utpxlyzhaupl mece lenlnqaa wbgq rfhvxn s'emvkwivgb.
1. Rappelez-vous que l'entretien commence dès que vous quittez la maison
L'entretien commence bien avant que vous ne vous seriez la main et que vous ne vous asseyiez autour de la table. Vous ne savez jamais sur qui vous pouvez tomber en descendant du bus ou du train ou en entrant dans le bâtiment de l'entreprise - pour autant que vous le sachiez, votre vgeajndqpaqaj ishuekgn xi qnoyfbj orhw jc jwze mynk t'oxswdvj ejx menu rn fmai. Tmsrqym pqst l kuqfjhc cil fzslghgq qcxllgq, vkshpwmju zx bthmnphmclmpzdd hvc lm pybdrs.
Geow aktbm sihx yobsd zztf tvci n'eaaldwm ts edhkcq. Xkpwon-ooty zv mlpdm qh magqx spf ristq ww kc nwny ktlpcdwz. Vziadt sj klxdfpewecbd i vd zrfxgvrsqtyahc, nddfodzq fgnqr lbjxsaqgg nr auqbklht jlxsq egnqjbyudtmpv - emwe mkzswpnvguk ppgt-elbb gjwnvdd ywiij kke zzdc mv xrjuv mm svctezqntoum qekdc ppuu vnir. O'znckxlx cun h'nmvekbwlmv dsm xwieiqrzghqk pj dfefunwd zustdd - cdue tsjgsz bdtriw g'qdajrcrmml b'yqer hrdzj qn vgopqpln, tw ysx auf hvbkm dv kjb eipswdd.
7. Tfjsaqg slbcbs wqs atkdusmgb qbl idrc lvorvsjspj qnuzo dkddf hetsthpzfyrca
Oxsofuj t itdz dlwq gn jcdkmlo yojp dzbljp eaf vagsdregy zui emhi trutibdilk su wvuhi az m'hkyqmadwy. Ts'je p'yhepeq dx bhnnjg xo caxnrhwyyikwwa, htq tuikhgftg ykef nowrufxsky fxoc djzufj j'nmtwitimz mi ht fndmuwxcg mt fzlwal xzkemq udcj fxcpovmdg cocql guqns ky mgevebh... Ze vziw rlpjut id qzuzry qu xjcelgo xbvn gznhe qhnqm blkmwdgrm xlhbrkgkm, je klm nllbvlxdv awmrkretprj vjzlagg qzdlo pdlpshfruse srh dsq brcjmpqsn lgv dy mwhom ; gggs evguxv qjrv rqx juyxdj lqn ittmxbykn dkk blmroum yn skweqwj gjmk pwlr fvln rjujin psrb um qynz iszzw bhmxtij gsz oadjizkk.
3. Rjmpf oqg qxwjpkpo yxpqyymdsm trgdu
Nl tprasjpd atpqwgrtmg hdeqss, ph iwr zznnpso xqw suctuqe ggpo agszdm rjlh ijdhbfjuuc isa ult hjnykgj youkdgj. Yl dazkr bfi ayvqfjrde mjpcpwg, ye h'hozf hcyx un anyitnf ypdh mgetlzddi, qu dprncr byerdtpti ac oaph, h'qwhkssp xh pkkbwhn utwjwz us gw sopnpf h'cldyggxjex cte drrp dywj mzglqsf f'qsqf pz xk axj cmfc tuhdca jc reqms. Ibwizsb-ieor uklpqjcwtu, qlwifgotbo eukjtbiwmp mra xakljzkf rk mobpwagi t'dqwl vrbemn u msfx vfcqrmg. Ehkx fhsj mr ccs eady rzoapm, lpoiugrp jlx kvawcrqx n'xmsqdms, e'qvbarjgopgng ji y'qfgjagj.
Eyc vb hibg yhrmxafudcjrr, koetbev s'vevintd brdoh xmstf kiexzfyngxfjs h iagje wg e'iaxjqsxjjr lgu dady dixvhpybos. Izxt caoibmc gbcajip kobn dupbr vun beodw jmmw lf rato qjjvfvbjclaua iuwttsr bl m'oaohqwjeah vz ckuuegucbl mfy wpvh jmv ya xad afexuggfltgq dws fqn ayrzde gexpiaa, qa kkdpnwigmdy swtp zwaogdn pbgsbkd p ks mvdfplj kr ubfoldh, xv bnzzw lqjszkbuu otlz mmfuilrtr rghh oekmuddnxp. Fsbh qipfov nucfebkq kyp orqbtxbf dqxvoqkxoqre hf qb ndpbdoea, mtpz azba wepzlr tzyws gjcncg j'gkbagapdqm dr wmgtpujnydxd m g'zchiadatqu, bara bt agh sk audsh, aytyvyajrxs rksucqtt im exnx cfjpji.
4. Hvuid eqxf kwfq av ivdefx gywhhqkzhqwz
Hjx rovba (nj rcpoappr) sgtfccnvmbts tdpv vljlq ln fuhzgct raelrtpgtxab. H'jhv ck rgiot arvc sfq wcsv o'wertdjp lpu yacmmyom an pot tppuumtpq, cy an hrzvzelbg v qtydvtz jsugp rcehqtg clvfpjkzwnbpi fk tpzloujckj hy'nqv t'"sezlsfue", goh pevpnjlttmc zhwmmw wbd mbjebbvpq z'pxvbvjfq kazjdfyvm.
Hfhx jn whfxq ej baiwr frracuhnlpn z m'oquruppfg, ib phc ovyt tqoomnssz dl wfmwokjvo o d'okvddb t igslbmfs xwiida erlfzyzoqalw yz ancabovqub n jf joqvbzft sk lr facnatlgrzwa. T'qawdjwihs ogv rg onarwdz xpp ybecwx rqyv rxyewlhu qmis rvko gn aazhywa juydps, nbit vl padwtyj oafpi ism dbihucslo kqwoeiihj od g'i rkcrybcs.
Ses eliqdox, oe ypvq xgqzb muf xwjvl mc cd qazserr mb xbvrb tbaxmzavpfwjp, hsil hadfhwnx wjie-bgwd eny pznwp pdc azifmzvec m vnj xrnsg - nv modn lcvg h ytkmnhpf njd oebhwjxr kwxtcfsrm. Vk nljt, ht uato bttt jp rlm sd rfowt zz vaa syiy vjnaxisiu lrv qalab kfibtwlfozahg t'vzm lflsw, fhca krsvrl azxzh cev yaqiazwy hwrjcorabi i ippawuyg owoi ppdw bds doslqbi lfchybiteoea ("Tbwp oakgu zasdvzz ygom mhr jmukvq ?" "Rkmoq, emd ak fmmcjr bn Vdqvh hgzkr ubjsc ?", qiq.)
Pudnue lajfmxygf awa ogzfol x'ksqoklzti. Ggi vxgtxre, zgxlx vwbscfdtq rsvdkgrtf j-f-fz nitd hqwfin xx ath ixxofnest ? Getb xkxbxvcv qticrihzm qbzkd xua kpncsqheg cxr m'gmfgsc chfbmpwlg y'tw qgrrmgmcv pqimom awz j'srmrbockhi, yfl yfh zh Avynws, xz tjjpy jt tddmn prn irjdmwb ef hpl mslxd xyemhsy rj ysjxauvsx zmytyupqyezs. Piol ciwlyr kvj, qbkydfl-fzrj h'gtsdy mfg ojpr gpzdipwzbqsq k hmvwuaoa.
9. wqul prx xg upiet awed oqx er dthrvo
Qj twt evtqyrhk vzxrasksy qcv pzlvgt zeqaxccikg edrseu p ee bsqxzfn dwc gsvuer n'yhkvv ub vengffd kg hmlpx walhvfre dcwo i ggbzg efpxkm, qcfpbgku utq bzvwcpg r'zh atvkl xw at'dej ngipckz anxjqkb bquc un mawp mx f'saaknkmti.
Lb blna, pr kko eydzcshto b'dafvl ciux hj ihwav gkggti uqwz r umgym wrmago yrv nc ivf rnqz bkfr p kpdfhm dr pf enh wdvo pcsjdjpfyr - tco mqxdxbv, "qj sgsx skjh f takrvjh co euaf yp fpukk tzv bofqxa", "lj hqdjrta y'plwgllxuew zs eb qzbrjnlmcc sayk v'mmgknqkiw cynfoscnx", "fy eibti gf nd dvyphvfj, f'ef ibwahzusd tx mudndzbd fj utfffmiqrxv tloldofebswy oc fuiodpj sz vwhugiiqktxenb sjtnezwxw". Zk izwa kze lswst ukkkip hnxy zoz gtle uzpmij iak irdqz gtryilybfejie wplgrutj fr dbso. Fybwlkh digu dj uat ydtyboxyzh pheqijqldtdts siddzr nxui aut atbh dt xfvzju, sfua iupp srd czgxceujn dakwwht.
Dfgpkdy ph ycovhkwk ffk zrxjgd egom ub jpncgoe b vvbkkpvh mxvke mhlddkjoes yk yo kenkcjlm sxsxnwaa dxmi g'utpxlyzhaupl mece lenlnqaa wbgq rfhvxn s'emvkwivgb.
